Start dating again
While you may not meet someone at these gatherings, you’re widening your social network (and you never know who these people may know).Keep joining new cliques, and you just might click with someone new.
But a good way to dust the relationship cobwebs off is to reconnect with that person who, for whatever reason, you never wanted to date and they never wanted to date you, but the two of you were perfectly great bedroom partners who were happy to have sleepovers and even breakfast in the morning without any awkwardness. You can have a few drinks, and socialize with both your friends, friends of friends and strangers.If you can make that first time back out on the open road with someone you're already comfortable and feel safe with, then you'll might be able to make the transition easier. I'm not entirely sure, being that I'm one half of a smugly-coupled hermit pair, but I've heard that it's true, so you might as well be the one to go out and confirm it for me.Who knows, you might even meet someone you end up doing on that one-on-one date with...It's a really innocent way to ease yourself back into the game.If you've been in a long-term relationship, I'm sorry but this one probably doesn't apply as much to you (but can still work!