Dating and game players
Perhaps they can see some ways to not get caught up with dating “games”. Sometimes our expectations get ahead of reality and cause our feelings to get hurt.
See our previous blog post about How to keep your expectations in check.
I realize that my response has focused on what you can do.
This is all that is under your control and what others do is not something that you have control over.
Some of the ‘games’ are not intentional, but too many are. First, it is important that you not be using the Internet for dating without an accountability group.
When your happiness is rooted in all sorts of things, not just him, you will never have to watch what you say or do for fear of coming off as needy because you will never be needy.While guys enjoy the pursuit, they hate it when you act in a way that is deliberately trying to get them to chase you. And to be clear, that is not what I’m talking about here.I am not saying get him to pursue you by acting unavailable, I’m saying actually be unavailable.For some reason people believe that communicating with this modern technology should follow outdated gender rules.Somehow people got it into there heads that the girl has to wait for the guy to text after a date, and the guy has to wait a day at least before doing that, and so on and so forth, and now I'm bored. You don’t have to pull somebody's pony tail, or trip them, or neg them to let them know that you think they are cute.
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I’m going to venture out on a limb here and say that most people find honesty refreshing.